Beyond Eat Pray Love: My Real Love Story with Bali

I was truly excited to immerse myself in Balinese culture—partly inspired by Eat Pray Love, which romanticized the idea of finding love in Bali. And while I didn’t find romantic love, I did fall deeply in love with the island’s rich traditions, vibrant art, and the way its culture is so beautifully preserved. 

Kecak and Fire Dance at Pura Dalem Ubud

🌅 Mornings of Meaning 

Each morning in Bali began with a quiet kind of magic. I’d wake to the soft scent of incense drifting through the air and the gentle sound of morning prayers unfolding just outside my window. Offerings of flowers and rice were placed with care at doorsteps and shrines—a daily ritual of devotion that brought a sense of calm and reverence to the start of each day. 

Whether I was setting off to explore a temple, browse a local market, or simply wander through a sleepy village, those early hours became sacred to me. They offered a moment to pause, to observe, and to feel deeply connected to the spiritual heartbeat of the island. 

An artist embodies Sita during a powerful portrayal in the Ramayana play

🎭 The Living Art of Bali 

One of the most heartwarming moments of my trip was watching children practice traditional Balinese dance in small roadside theatres on the way to Ubud. Their graceful movements, focused expressions, and vibrant costumes were a beautiful introduction to the island’s artistic soul—it felt like stumbling upon a living rehearsal of heritage. 

Ubud, often called the cultural heart of Bali, is where tradition and creativity come alive. From cozy theatres and bustling art markets to world-class museums, it offers countless ways to explore the island’s rich artistic landscape. The Kecak dance and Ramayana performances were especially mesmerizing—fiery, rhythmic, and deeply spiritual. They don’t just entertain; they transport you. 

🎟️ Tip: Tickets for traditional dance shows are often sold by local theatres in Ubud, and each night may feature a different performance—from Legong to Barong to Ramayana. I attended one at a small temple theatre, and it was unforgettable. While the Kecak dance is famously performed at Uluwatu Temple, if you’re not heading that way, don’t worry—Ubud offers equally captivating versions in a more intimate setting. 

handmade ukelele, Ubud market

🛍️ Handcrafted Heritage 

Bali is truly a haven for handcrafted art. From the moment you arrive, you’re surrounded by creativity—local artisans crafting breathtaking wood carvings, weaving intricate textiles, and painting vivid scenes that echo the island’s rich cultural soul. 

If you’re looking to take a piece of that magic home, don’t miss the Ubud Art Market. It’s a vibrant maze of color, texture, and craftsmanship—perfect for finding authentic, handmade treasures that carry the spirit of Bali with them. 

🧵 Tip: Some of Bali’s most beautiful art isn’t found in galleries—it’s created right on the roadside. As you travel between villages, take time to stop and watch local artisans at work. You’ll gain a deeper appreciation for their craft, and maybe even find a one-of-a-kind piece to take home. Don’t forget to carry some cash—many of these artists sell directly from their workshops! 

🏡 Penglipuran Village: A Living Museum 

Penglipuran Village is a perfect example of Bali’s cultural richness. Home to around 190 families, it’s ranked among the cleanest villages in the world. Walking through it felt like stepping into a living museum. Each home has its own small temple, a quiet testament to the island’s deep spirituality and respect for tradition. 

Tip: Yes, wear comfortable shoes, you should know by now!  

A sacred offering at a Balinese funeral—
honoring the soul’s journey with flowers, incense, and devotion.

🤝 The Heart of Community 

What truly made Bali unforgettable was its people. I was lucky enough to be invited to a traditional wedding in a small village. I didn’t know a lot of people at first, but by the end of the night, I was dancing, laughing, and sharing food with strangers who felt like old friends. The entire village had come together to celebrate—it was a beautiful reminder of what community really means. 

Since I didn’t speak Balinese, we relied on Google Translate to bridge the gap—and honestly, it worked better than I expected! My host even used it to share stories with me, which made our connection feel more genuine and heartfelt.

That same spirit of togetherness shines through not just in joyful moments, but also in times of loss. During funerals, the community gathers in harmony and devotion to honor the departed, transforming sorrow into a vibrant celebration of life and spiritual unity.

💬 Tip: If you’re visiting, I highly recommend picking up a few basic Balinese phrases—it really makes a difference. Try saying Suksma or Punapi gatra? –go ahead, translate them yourself and see how far a little effort can go!